Dear beautiful lady
I don’t know exactly what’s led you here, but I know that you’ve already had your fair share of challenges, heartache and disappointments.
It’s so hard isn’t it? You do everything ‘right’ and yet you still don’t end up with your baby in your arms.
You were really hoping IVF would be the answer, sadly, its not worked out that way.
To make things worse, you’re exhausted, on a constant roller coaster of feeling so anxious your stomach is full of knots and so low, it’s hard to get out of bed somedays.
You’re noticing things sliding away from you; disconnection from your partner, distance from friends and family, little motivation in your work and feelings of overwhelm and doubt have become unwelcomed companions.
If you’re like most women I support, these feelings are so alien. Usually you’re confident, knowing what you want and managed to achieve whatever you’ve set your mind to. Somehow, it seems to make it harder that you can’t ‘fix’ having a baby.
Infertility is so much more than just having a baby or not, it’s:
Lonely and Isolated
I’m available for you to speak to in complete confidence. Your not judged and I can listen to you without you fearing hurting or upseting me.
Stressed and Anxious
I’m sure you’ll be experincing this to some degree, as everyone of my clients does to begin with. After time, you will begin to feel calmer and experience greater peace of mind with the tools I’ll share with you.
Misunderstood as to why you can't simply "get over it"
Life events for you as a woman can be harsh. It’s during these hard, dark nights of your soul, is when you wish for clarity and certainty only to find it deserted you the most. We’ll work together to help give you clarity and confidence on what to do next and taking the actions that help you to feel good again.
It’s such a hard, heavy emotion right?! Made even more challenging as you just feel like you should be over it. During our time together, I’ll help you explore how grief is effecting you and offer you ways to help you accept where your at and how to honor your loss.
Overwhelmed & Exhausted
This is such a showstopper – when your in this place everything is too much, yet you desperately want to feel back in control.
I’ll share with you my toolkit that will stop your overwhelm, rebuild your energy and vitality and have you radiant and glowing again.
Loss of Confidence and Self Belief
Hormonal hell, fertility challenges, slave driving boss, bereavment, loss of a relationship, can all leave you feeling low and suffering with crisis of confidence, low self-esteem and low self worth.
Constant Grief of Month after Month, no Baby.
These are some of the biggest challenges that you’ll face as a woman, made even harder by the silence and lack of understanding that cam surround you whilst your suffering.
This is why I’ve created this safe space for you to talk and share freely, plus explore great ways for you to rebuild your energy and life, wherever you are on your fertility journey. Whether this be following a miscarriage, failed IVF attempt or coming to terms with not having your own biological children.
The Head-mess of Clinics, Clinicians, Freezers, Donors
Peri-menopause, PMT, Menopause, these are all hormonal events that are unique to women, which despite making up 50% of the population, you’re poorly equipt to deal with, and if like many others, you feel like you’ve got to just get on with it.
This doesn’t have to be the case. I’ve created a number of toolkits to help you navigate some of these harder times of being a woman. And please know, your not going mad, neither are you alone.
Frustrated & Angry
When your used to having all the answers, being able to juggle 20 things at once, being happy go lucky, enjoying your life, your social life, sex life, expanding and growing your business without dropping any balls and all with a smile on your face. When you can’t do this, frustration doesn’t take long to build, neither does the anger at yourself and those around you.
Arguements start and frustration at not being able to solve the suitation can start to spiral quickly and easily which can be damaging to you and to your relationships. I share tools that nurture and protect your relationships.
Left behind by Friends Starting Families
Every woman I speak to feels alone in what their experiencing, and often no-one is opening up about what’s going on for them and how its effecting them.
Its really sad as there’s so much support from talking and sharing freely with the right person.
I offer you somewhere to belong suring your darkest and heaviest times, and we’ll establish ways for you build a support network thats helpful and beneficial to you and your needs.
Lack of Sex Drive
Fertility challenges cut really, really deep and are made harder when those around you don’t understand. This can really effect your relationship with your partner, freinds and family.
Peri-menopause is often a really challenging time for a lot of women, made even harder by the men in your life as they don’t experience hormones in the way us women do, so can have very little empathy when we go through the stormy times.
This is why we look at ways for you to commuincate harmoniously with others during these more challngeing times.
Hormonal Hell of Treatments
If your reading this then the chances are your a highly sensitive person and probably an empath too.
This alone, without the right tools, can leave you feeling drained and overwhelmed by life, let alone if your suffering with fertility challenges or hormonal imbalances.
My approach shares tools that equipt you to be able to navigate, function and thrive in this busy, loud and over stimulating world.
How would your day be if you could let go of the exhaustion and overwhelm and feel calm, confident and clear headed again?
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